RIP Wayne Deller

The Essex football community is mourning the loss of Wayne Deller, a passionate and tireless contributor to the game whose dedication spanned decades and touched every corner of grassroots football in the county. Wayne sadly passed away recently, leaving behind a powerful legacy defined by integrity, leadership, and a deep love for the sport.

Wayne had been Catering Manager at Wembley Stadium, for many years, where our paths may have crossed unknowingly, it was only years later when we met through our volunteer work within football that we discovered that we had both been in the same vicinity at the same time, on countless occasions through his employment and my voluntary involvement in football.

Wayne's involvement in football as a referee is widely known, where he quickly earned respect for his calm authority and fairness on the pitch.

Over the years, he became more than a match official; he was a mentor, a role model, and a leader for others within the game. As an FA Observer, Wayne helped guide the next generation of referees, sharing his knowledge and providing clear, constructive feedback to help them improve.

His impact was equally profound behind the scenes. Wayne served with distinction as Chairman of the Essex County FA, and later as Director responsible for referees, playing a vital role in shaping policy and culture within the association. He was a familiar and reassuring presence at county cup finals events, where he supported referees taking charge of key fixtures and reminded them of the importance of preparation, communication, and professionalism.

In recognition of his extraordinary service, Wayne was elected Honorary Vice-President of Essex FA in 2021, having served over 21 years on the Board and Council. It was a fitting honour for someone who gave so much of his time and energy to the development of the game across Essex. Colleagues described him as ‘measured, thoughtful, and always willing to listen’, qualities that made him a respected official and a deeply valued friend.

His commitment to the referee community was especially evident through his long-standing dedication to the Barking and Dagenham Referees Association. Wayne was a central figure within the association for many years, offering support, leadership, and encouragement to local officials. He was always available to provide advice, offer training, or simply lend a listening ear, helping to create an environment where referees of all ages and experience levels felt welcomed and respected.

Wayne was also a committed Accreditation Officer for the Essex Senior Football League, where he continued to champion high standards across clubs, grounds, and governance. His attention to detail and passion for improvement made a lasting difference to those he supported. Wayne’s level-headed approach made him an ideal advisor to referees, colleagues, and I often found myself consulting him (as I’m sure did many others), Wayne was always generous with his time and support to football in Essex.

Throughout his volunteer career, Wayne never sought the spotlight. Instead, he worked quietly and effectively in the background, making sure things were done properly, always in the best interest of the game. He embodied the very spirit of volunteerism and community service, reminding all who knew him that football is about more than just results; it’s about fairness, opportunity, and belonging.

Wayne’s passing leaves a significant void, but also a legacy of which he and his family can be immensely proud. His contributions will live on in the countless referees he mentored, the leagues and clubs he supported, and the standards he helped uphold.

The thoughts of everyone in the Essex football community are with Wayne’s family and loved ones. He will be deeply missed, but his influence and example will never be forgotten